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10 Do’s & Don’ts For Men’s Cocktail Party Attire

Hello there fellow Raleighite! Here’s your guide on how to show up for the Me Fine Foundation Gala  in something you’ll enjoy yourself in all while making a statement! You’ll be helping children with illnesses and their families battle through their journey so you’re already a star in our book!

To prep you on some style pointers, we’ve invited Brian Burnett owner of Glenwood South Tailors + Alterations and Hengs Suiting + Armoury, their Bespoke Suiting popup shop. Brian has served as stylist/clothier at Nordstrom to Triangle execs, attorneys,and business leaders while he attended UNC-CH full time. Post 2013 graduation, he traveled to London, France, Austria, Netherlands, Italy, and Germany to absorb European tailoring knowledge and refine Bespoke styling etiquette. After a brief stint at a couple digital tech firms Brian launched the aforementioned ventures formally.


  1. Do: Define Your F.I.T.™Preference (Fashion Involves Tailoring)

Is your fit preference Classic or Modern? Do you prefer the classic fit of a black suit, or a custom tux with a bit of room in the belly and thigh? Or are you a modern tailored kind of guy? Typically the popular Modern fit includes a jacket that hugs in the torso and sleeves. Noticeably slimmer  trousers will fit against the thigh and calf area to balance it out.


  1. Do: Have Your Jacket and Trousers Tailored

The jacket needs to be tailored well in the torso ranging on your body type, not hangng off your shoulders. Trousers should be tailored to insure a modern fit-minimal excess fabric in the legs

At our men’s pop-up shop, Hengs Suiting & Armoury, our bespoke suits are cut on a trimmer pattern-yet not tight. Because we’re owned by Glenwood South Tailors, we can take care of tweaks in house using our Flextailoring™  for custom clients and shirts.

  1. Do: Wear a necktie or bowtie.

A bowtie or necktie pulls the whole suit together. For formal events, choose from colors and fabrics like: standard black satin, black velvet (yes, velvet), or a nice glen plaid print. For a classic look, black silk is always a go-to.


  1. Do: Adopt a Pre-Event Grooming Routine

We’re not channeling Tom Hiddleson, we’re going more for Benedict Cumberbatch or Ryan Gosling. Ensure your facial hair is trimmed; not geometrically precise. Go with minimal hair product ;this reduces the amount you’ll perspire.


    5. Do: Choose a Quality Dress Shoe
A fine dress shoe represents attention to detail and makes you look sharp from head to toe.-Listen closely:The wrong shoe can break an outfit, while the right shoe can make an outfit. They are evil and belong in 2002 with the square toed shoes. Go for an Italian make like a Bruno Magli,To Boot New York,  an updated Johnson Murphy or Allen Edmonds.


  1. Don’t: Wear Slacks with Improper Length

Don’t be the guy with trouser fabric puddling over the shoe. Make sure that you have a timeless but modern trouser hem. You can never go wrong with a medium break and it’s worth a quick trip to your local tailorshop or have your tailor come to you.


  1. Don’t: Wear a Visibly Worn Dress or Formal Shirt

Cocktail parties are a time to dress well. A crisp, tailored white dress shirt is so dashing-you have no idea! Do your shirts have noticeable collar/cuff discoloration? Replace it and make sure you purchase a tailored fit shirt or have your local tailor taper the sleeves.


  1. Don’t: Wear 3 Button Jackets 

Okay guys, it’s over. Just stop. Remove all 3 Buttons from the closet ASAP. For most jackets, as long as it fits in the shoulders reasonably well (this is important) the torso area can be tailored inward a bit to make your suit fit your leaner. See the picture below.

 9.Don’t: Wear Ill-Fitting Slacks or Casualwear

Slacks are a simple fix and they give most suits a drastic update. Do not make this a casual occasion; jeans & dark khakis are a no-no.  At GST we’ll bring in both seams based on your body type.

  1. Don’t: Wear the Wrong Shoes

The type of shoe you wear with your suit is so important, it made this list twice.Stay away from Cole Haan Caldwell Captoes in the lacquered finish.   A cap or almond toe in black is standard.  Avoid dark brown, mahogany, or cordovan for this event.

These tips all come from a good place as does the initiative by the great folks atMe Fine Foundation that provide hope to critically ill children treated by Children’s Hospitals in NC and their families through financial assistance, emotional assistance, a necessary support. At Glenwood South Tailors, we’re excited to support the Me Fine Foundation and are proud to help Richard, Joey, and Laura (all who have pushed this initiative with NO government assistance), so lets show up big for the children!!!

Brian Burnett is the owner of Glenwood South Tailors and Alterations.. Founded in 2016, Glenwood South Tailors specializes in mobile (Yes they come to your home/office via their mobile app) high end tailoring, bridal alterations, Bespoke Suiting/shirting, and personal styling for professionals. GST is located off of Glenwood Avenue in Raleigh.. You can follow GST on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram.

Under One Month To Go: Get Your Tickets For The Annual Gala





Raleigh, N.C. (August 21, 2017)-The 2017 Me Fine Foundation Gala presented by Centrifuge Media will be held on Saturday, September 23rd at City Club Raleigh downtown. The gala will be a night of celebration with food and drink, a live and silent auction, and music performed by local favorite Crush. Proceeds from the gala will benefit families facing medical crises while being treated at Duke and UNC Children’s Hospitals.


Centrifuge Media is serving as presenting sponsor of the Gala, which is Me Fine’s annual signature fundraising event. Me Fine provides financial assistance and emotional support programs to parents and caregivers whose children are receiving long term medical treatment from Duke and UNC Children’s Hospitals. City Club Raleigh is serving as the venue sponsor for the third consecutive year.


“Last year’s Gala exceeded our expectations thanks to the support of Centrifuge Media, City Club Raleigh and our supporting sponsors. We are astonished by the support of the community toward our mission. This year, we hope to even be more successful and to serve more families facing medical crisis,” said Joey Powell, Executive Director of Me Fine Foundation.


Tickets for the event are available online at www.mefinegala.com. Me Fine welcomes corporate sponsors and those opportunities can be found on the gala website. For more information or if you have interest in sponsoring the gala, email info@mefinefoundation.org.


About Me Fine Foundation, Inc.:

Me Fine Foundation, Inc. is a nonprofit organization dedicated to providing financial assistance to parents and caregivers sacrificing their livelihoods in order to provide their children with state-of-the-art, or even last-chance medical treatment at Duke and UNC Children’s Hospitals. Me Fine Foundation is committed to ensuring families with children facing a devastating medical crisis are able to receive financial assistance, emotional support and other necessary resources to sustain the loss of income due to the dramatic change in lifestyle. For more information, please call (919) 202-0086 or visit http://www.mefinefoundation.org


About Centrifuge Media:


Centrifuge Media is an event and production agency offering audiovisual production, creative services, and meeting technologies. The privately held company was founded in 2005 and located in Raleigh. For more information, please call 919-466-9499 or visit www.centrifugemedia.com


About City Club Raleigh:

City Club Raleigh (please link: http://ow.ly/bJHo30eEHJp) – which unveiled a $2.6-million reinvention in 2014 (formerly Cardinal Club)  – is Raleigh’s premier business and social club where city leaders gather to work, host, connect and celebrate. Surrounded by panoramic views of Raleigh, the Club features an upscale dining room, casual Anytime Lounge and Grill and office away from the office spaces. The Club serves as the most elevated event venue in the Triangle; sitting at 28 and 29 stories high in the Wells Fargo Capitol Center in downtown Raleigh. For information, please call 919.834.8829 or visit CityClubRaleigh.com.


About ClubCorp (NYSE: MYCC)


Since its founding in 1957, Dallas-based ClubCorp has operated with the central purpose of Building Relationships and Enriching Lives®. ClubCorp is a leading owner-operator of private golf and country clubs and private business clubs in North America. With its recent acquisition of Sequoia Golf, ClubCorp now owns or operates a portfolio of over 200 golf and country clubs, business clubs, sports clubs, and alumni clubs in 26 states, the District of Columbia and two foreign countries that serve over 430,000 members, with approximately 20,000 peak-season employees. ClubCorp Holdings, Inc. is a publicly traded company on the New York Stock Exchange (NYSE: MYCC). ClubCorp properties include: Firestone Country Club (Akron, Ohio); Mission Hills Country Club (Rancho Mirage, California); The Woodlands Country Club (The Woodlands, Texas); Capital Club Beijing; and Metropolitan Club Chicago. You can find ClubCorp on Facebook at facebook.com/clubcorp and on Twitter at @ClubCorp

Recap: Upcoming Local Gala and Christmas In July Images




As you know, we recently completed our Christmas in July campaign at UNC Children’s hospital. We want to thank each and every one of our supports for the kind words, thoughts as well as the gifts that we distributed. The children all had smiles on their faces, which was very rewarding to see! Here are some images for you to see how the day played out as well as information about our upcoming local gala. 

Me Fine Foundation’s Christmas in July at UNC Children’s Hospital was a resounding success! Many patients and families enjoyed a Hawaiian Luau-themed party with games and activities in the Play Atrium. Santa Claus and Mrs. Claus were on hand for photos and to pass out toys to the children. We know Christmas In July not only inspires hope but also fills a recreation and activity gap in the summer when so many volunteers, staff, and students are away. We look forward to next year!

Me Fine Foundation Local Gala

The Christmas in July campaign is certainly one of our favorites and leads up to our Annual Gala! That is another event with which we need your support. We are aiming to raise $250 000 during the Gala on September 23rd, our biggest fundraising effort, and would love your contribution! You’ll be a part of an evening full of food, drink and entertainment (including both a live and silent auction) to ensure you have a most enjoyable night.

Here is the link for tickets as well as sponsorship opportunities. We also have opportunities related to donation of items and experiences to auction at our live and silent auction. For more information related to this, please get in touch with anyone on the team, and we will be more than happy to assist.

We guarantee you’ll have a fantastic night as you help support the children at Duke and UNC Children’s hospitals! 

Local Fundraiser, Love Is Bald, Raises Funds for Me Fine.

Happy Thursday, everyone! Here’s an update about the recent local fundraiser, the Love Is Bald Golf Tournament, followed by information about our much anticipated, upcoming Annual Gala!

Love Is Bald Golf Tournament Raises Over $9K for Me Fine

A prime example of social good, The Susan S Allen Memorial Golf Tournament held at Riverwood golf course in Clayton, N.C. on June 10th raised over $9,000 for The Me Fine Foundation. The tournament, acting as a local fundraiser, was organized by Love Is Bald, an organization created by a group of friends from the Wilmington, N.C area who lost a special friend in a battle with cancer in 2004. They since have created an organization that keeps her love, compassion and friendship alive by giving back to the community by creating fundraising events year round.

Over 28 teams graced the course for the all day tournament. A number of businesses contributed to the local fundraiser, ranging from event sponsors to golf hole sponsors. A dinner provided by Smithfield’s Chicken ‘N Bar-B-was served at the end of the tournament. Raffles and a silent auction topped off the tournament, pushing the final total beyond our expectations.

We are overwhelmed by the generosity from the folks at Love Is Bald. It’s inspiring to see a small group of people with such an enormous capacity for good. Their support will make a direct impact, providing financial and emotional support to families dealing with medical crisis at Duke and UNC Children’s Hospital. We can’t thank them enough.

You too can be a part of our mission by supporting the Me Fine Gala on September 23rd at City Club Raleigh in downtown. Join us for an unbelievable evening of live music and dancing, incredible food and drink, all benefitting our community’s children who need our help. Sponsorship opportunities are still available  for this local gala and tickets are on sale now.Me Fine Gala - 7th Annual Me Fine Gala

Thank you for your support!

Social Good: What The Support of Nurses Truly Means

A recent college graduate recounts his story during his illness. Read about the wonderful and caring staff that helped him through his journey. A great example of social good in practice.  

I glanced up at Dorothy’s kind face, my expression betraying my uneasiness and uncertainty. She smiled and nodded, as if she were telling me to believe in myself, to be confident in my abilities. That I’m capable of more than I think I am.

I had never taken the lock off the plastic food tube hanging from my stomach or poured the medications I needed (to live) into it. Dorothy had always done that for me. I didn’t know if I could do it, but Dorothy did.

The liquid medicine trickled from my medicine glass into the funnel, through the tube and into my abdomen. I felt the usual cold sensation hit my stomach, but this time it came with a sense of satisfaction. Dorothy’s gesture was a minor one, but it was significant to me.

Dorothy was one of my favorite nurses at a rehabilitation center where I recovered from a life-saving surgery to repair a brain aneurysm in the summer of 2015. I had spent two weeks in a hospital intensive care unit, but I was unconscious for a lot of that time. Everything I had been able to do just days before was now out of the question. I couldn’t talk or walk or swallow. Half of my body was temporarily paralyzed, and all of my ability to care for myself was gone.



What Dorothy did that June morning was to restore just a little independence to my life. That’s not her job – just leave all the healing work to the rehabilitation center’s talented therapists. But Dorothy took her job requirements just one step further, gave just a little more effort, to do her part to help heal the patients she cared for every day.

I certainly made widespread improvements to my physical and cognitive limitations under the care of my therapists, but it was a few of my nurses that made all the difference. With a few simple acts like Dorothy’s, many of my nurses worked to instill in me self-confidence and a determination to work to return as close as possible to the person who first walked into the hospital for surgery.

Without them, I wouldn’t be where I am nowa college graduate from the University of North Carolina. Every day, in each therapy session, I pushed myself as hard as I could because Dorothy and those like her pushed me to see that I could do things for myself, that I was capable of improving, that I didn’t have to be ‘this way’ forever. Now, two years removed from my surgery and recovery experience, I can reflect on it all.

And I plead. With hospitals and rehabilitation centers. A simple Google search reveals that a registered nurse in the middle of his or her career can expect to earn an average total compensation of $63,000, including bonus and overtime pay. Meanwhile, there are dozens of hospitals in the United States that have an operating margin of over 25 percent. Just some of this income can be allocated to nurses’ salaries in order to attract better and more committed nurses. Hospitals and rehabilitation centers can afford to pay nurses more, but they don’t in the interest of making money. But don’t think those hospitals that barely break even can’t do more too. Creating better working conditions, a productive and encouraging environment and more effective retention policies are just some of the ways that healthcare facilities can improve the morale of nurses. Happier and more motivated nurses make the lives of everyone better – the patients and therefore the healthcare facility as well.

I also plead with you – patients and family members. Your situation is extremely unfortunate, and often unforeseen. But the nurses didn’t put you or a loved one in a hospital bed, they’re trying their hardest to get you out. They don’t enjoy sticking needles in your arm or waking you up in the middle of the night to record your vital signs, but they do enjoy seeing you leave the hospital with a smile on your face. The least we can do is understand the difficulties of nurses’ jobs and how we can help them do their jobs easier. Nurses are people too, so a compliant and polite demeanor on your part will make life easier for them, and help them make life easier for you.

I’ll never forget Dorothy, her colleagues or what they did for me. They helped show me I could learn and grow, that I wasn’t any less of a person than anyone else. Now, I want more patients in a hospital or rehabilitation center to have the same positive experience I did. And it can all start today, with the first steps toward supporting the nurses in our nation’s health facilities.

Read on to learn more about Me Fine Foundation and how we work with hospital staff to improve the lives of chronically ill children. Start practicing your own social good by attending our local fundraiser, Me Fine Foundation’s Annual Gala

Christmas in July 2017!

On July 20th and 27th, the Me Fine Foundation will once again spread some cheer to kids who really need it. Thanks to the thousands of dollars and hundreds of toys donated by our supporters, we were once again will bring Christmas in July to the children at Duke and UNC Children’s hospitals. Led by the one and only Santa Claus, volunteers will distribute toys to the sickest children in the hospitals. Christmas in July is important in that it fills a recreation and activity gap in the summer when so many volunteers, staff, and students are away.

While Santa will be distributing such items as toy trucks and stuffed animals to small children, there is a group of sick children who are sometimes underserved. Teenagers being treated at Duke and UNC Children’s Hospitals can make up a substantial part of the patient population. We want to make sure we bring joy to these group of kids as well as small children, so this year we’ll be distributing gift cards for teen patients to choose

We know how important it is for teens to assert their independence and individuality, even when they’re confined to a hospital bed for the summer. We hope to brighten their spirits with gift cards from Game Stop, Amazon, iTunes, Wal-Mart, Target and others. We’re excited about this initiative because it fills a need. It’s also an easy way for you or your business to get involved in Me Fine and make an impact in your community.

Simply purchase a $25 gift card that a teen would use and mail to 2017 Woodrow St. Durham, N.C. 27705 or purchase online and e-mail to meredith@mefinefoundation.org by July 14th.

You can also contact me at richard.averitte@mefinefoundation.org or 919-841-8774 and I’ll come by and pick it up! 


The Me Fine Foundations exists to bring hope to families in medical crisis. Christmas in July is just one example of how we achieve our mission. Thank you for your support.

-Richard Averitte, Board Chair, Me Fine Foundation

Get Your Daily Dose of Cheer

“Love can change the world in a moment”

A lot of families either start or end their day by tuning in to the news to get a pulse on current events around the globe. Most news channels will report the atrocities – whether that be violence, famine or terror. Once in a while, that bad will be interspersed with hopeful, inspiring stories. Personally, I choose to focus on those. Stories that promote, peace, happiness and support. It also happens that celebrities, most commonly music artists, are seen supporting these messages. One such story was in relation to Red Nose Day, in March 2017. 

Popular singer and entertainer, Ed Sheeran, took a trip to Liberia to meet with children who lead tough lives to help them tell their stories. In this exclusive video, you can see the smiles on the children’s faces as they hold up cards telling us of their career aspirations. A campaign such as this, that supports education and equal opportunity, shows an insight into the type of stories that news channels should promote more. We need more hope, happiness and health in the media. Why? As you know, a lot of our views are shaped by the media. Instead of showcasing the bad, why not showcase and celebrate the good? Small changes in what the media promotes can lead to positive changes in public attitude. 

Take a look at the exclusive video from the Red Nose Day campaign and see how it bring an immediate smile to your face!

In similar fashion, Chicago based singer/songwriter, Chance the Rapper,  joined with Non-Profit The Empowerment Plan to create a campaign to donate 1000 coats to Chicago’s homeless. Not only are these warm coats, but the website says “The EMPWR coat is a water-resistant and self-heating jacket, which can transform into a sleeping bag, or be worn as an over-the-shoulder bag when not in use”. Furthermore, the coats are manufactured at the Empowerment Plan factory in Detroit, which hires “homeless parents from local shelters to become full time seamstresses so that they can earn a stable income, find secure housing, and gain back their independence for themselves and for their families.”

While being informed of current events is important, it is just as crucial to engage with stories such as these to elevate your mood and brighten your day! Let us know how this post made a difference in your day. And as always, continue to smile and be kind, for “Hope is being able to see that there is light despite all of the darkness” – Desmond Tutu. 


How Do You Handle Hearing Tough, Often Unexpected News?

Imagine this

Taking your child to their weekly baseball games and being excited that your budding baseballer is hitting the home runs, catching all the balls and being the star of the team. But then imagine that something did not feel quite right: your child is breathing a little harder and is seemingly more exhausted. So you take them to the doctor and think, “Okay, it’s probably just a minor condition. Maybe he’s recovering from his cold that he had a week ago.” The doctor does his various tests, poking and prodding. A few days pass after the tests and you receive a call saying, “I’m sorry, your child has Leukemia and you need to take him to the emergency room. We have a specialist waiting for you.”

Unfortunately, this is reality for many parents. With the next steps being an overwhelming series of tests and procedures, the initial diagnosis can often be one of the toughest parts of the process. The story above is that of 12-year old “Lucas”, who was fed up with his parents asking him if he was okay. This resonates with the name behind our organization, ‘Me Fine’ – named so by friends and family of Folden Lee IV, who was diagnosed with AML Lukemeia in May 2003. Even after going through numerous tests, when asked, “Folden, how are you today?” his answer would always be “Me Fine!”. Me Fine was founded in order to pool resources for families facing life changing challenges.

Why do we do it?

With the help of our sponsors and donors, we are able to help make changes in the lives of children and their families to help ease the burden during difficult times. Why do we do it? A picture speaks a thousand words – take a look!

News Release-Me Fine Foundation Announces Spring Fundraiser

For Immediate Release

Me Fine Foundation, Inc.

5100 US Hwy. 70 East

Princeton, NC 27569

Phone: (919) 202-0086

Email: info@mefinefoundation.org

Me Fine Foundation Announces Spring Fundraiser

Music for Me Fine features BJ Barham; to raise $30k for families of sick children

RALEIGH, NC (March 22, 2017) – The Me Fine Foundation today announced that tickets are on sale for its second annual Music for Me Fine fundraiser. The April 21 event at All Saints Chapel, which last year raised nearly $20,000 to help families of children receiving treatment at UNC Children’s Hospital and Duke Children’s, will feature BJ Barham of American Aquarium and another to-be-named talent.

“Now in our 13th year, the Me Fine Foundation is serving more families in need than ever,” said Me Fine Foundation Executive Director Joey Powell. “Parents who are dealing with a very sick child should be able to focus on that child – and not have the added stress of missing rent or mortgage payments, groceries, utility bills, or even gas to get to and from the hospital. That’s where Me Fine comes in.”

“And that’s why we’re excited to announce our second Music for Me Fine,” continued Powell. “This event is a fun, casual way to enjoy some of our area’s best local music, food and drinks while supporting a great cause.”

Event sponsorships are still available, and more information is at www.musicformefine.org. Tickets are on sale for $80 a person or $150 a couple.


More information about the Me Fine Foundation:

  • In 2016, we have served 76 families with financial assistance. Since 2004, more than 1,200 families have benefitted from Me Fine’s financial support.
  • Our average family grant is $220.
  • Most frequently, Me Fine grants funds to support rent/mortgage payments, utility bills, groceries, medical bills or vehicle expenses.
  • Me Fine also funds clinically-proven Emotional Support programs that are administered in the hospital setting by trained staff. These programs help children and families cope with the psychological and emotional burdens that accompany a critical or terminal diagnosis and its subsequent treatment.



About Me Fine Foundation, Inc.:

Me Fine Foundation, Inc. is a nonprofit organization dedicated to providing financial assistance to parents and caregivers sacrificing their livelihoods in order to provide their children with state-of-the-art, or even last-chance medical treatment at Duke and UNC Children¹s Hospitals. Me Fine Foundation is committed to ensuring families with children facing a devastating medical crisis are able to receive financial assistance, emotional support and other necessary resources to sustain the loss of income from the dramatic lifestyle changes they face during the treatment process. For more information, please call (919) 202-0086 or visit http://www.mefinefoundation.org.


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